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Psychotherapy

Let's start looking together.

Family, couples and relationship therapy. The aim is not to hand out ready-made answers, but to understand the person and the relationship within their own dynamics.

The first conversation is free. You shouldn't have to pay to find out whether we're a good fit for each other.

Approach

A relationship is where two worlds intersect

I see a relationship not merely as the way two individuals communicate, but as a dynamic structure where two life stories, two family systems, two biological make-ups, two cultural histories and two worlds of meaning intersect.

Therapy is therefore not just an intervention aimed at the problems on the surface; it is a field of discovery where the layers that shape how a relationship forms, develops and transforms are understood together. No single explanatory model is enough to understand every person or every relationship — each one carries a context of its own.

The interdisciplinary methodology behind this view, and my training, are described in detail on the About page.

Process

How we proceed

  1. 1

    First conversation 30 minutes · free

    In the first session we talk together about what brought you here: what you want to change, what you have tried so far. This session is also a mutual fit test — we decide together afterwards whether to continue.

  2. 2

    Regular sessions

    The work continues at a set rhythm. What we talk about is not only the events themselves, but the patterns beneath them, the expectations, and the relational habits both sides carry without noticing.

  3. 3

    Review and closing

    We review together where we are as the process unfolds. Therapy is not an open-ended bond; as the goal comes closer, sessions grow further apart and the work closes properly.

Practical details

How the work is set up

Who I work with
Couples, individuals and families
Format
Online and in person (Istanbul, Bahçeşehir)
First conversation
30 minutes · free (individuals, couples and families — online or in person)
Session length
45–75 minutes, depending on what the session covers.
Frequency
Set together, according to what you need and what you're asking of therapy.
Fees and available times

Let's be clear

What therapy is not

Therapy is not about getting advice, being proven right, or finding a referee. I do not take sides; I try to open room for both of you to be understood. Change happens not in the session room, but in the days between.

If you are in an emergency — thoughts of harming yourself or someone else, violence, or anything threatening your safety — please do not wait for an appointment. In Turkey call 112, or go to the nearest emergency department.

Booking

Let's arrange a conversation

We start with a free first conversation. To book, or to ask about fees and available times, just message me on WhatsApp — anything else on your mind is welcome there too.